So it might be a little unconventional to share this with you all but I'm not a very conventional person a lot of the time so I'm not too worried. A friend reccomended this book today and I read the first few pages on Amazon and decided I needed to get it. Being unemployed and impatient I didn't want to spend the money for it or order it from Amazon. Get this, my local library had it! I haven't had a library card for a long long time. Way to save money! So far the book really hits home. It's written by two women who's divorces were very similar to what I am going through. Just thought I'd share.