ok, well this sucks. The divorce paperwork came back today saying it was incomplete. I filled it out according to the directions from the woman at the help desk so I don't know what was wrong with it. I thought that was the point of the help desk, to help you fill things out correctly. Talk about frustrating. Back to square one.
ETA: after looking over the directions that came back with it, all I can figure that was wrong was that it wasn't stapled together (lame) or I submitted two copies plus the original rather than four. It asked for two so WTH!!!!!!